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Lucy Tucker's avatar

I used to teach my high school junior boys that there was a third option in addition to wimp or barbarian. A gentleman, a knight. Where masculine strength is used to defend the weak.

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Tricheco's avatar

I think the pop culture emphasis on brutality is a form of over-compensation. Most men spend their lives (from a very early age) in one appalling institution after another, where discipline is maintained through capricious attacks, collective punishments and humiliation. At some point in the process, they're presented with heroes who are too nasty to be messed with. Once the patterns are established, it's not easy to break that conditioning.

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